Hey girls, i need your contributions...
Today i had lunch with my colleagues. Female colleagues talked about maybe will sacrifice career for family. Then i said that i can be a house-husband. Then suddenly all the guns are pointed to me! They started to scold me...
The followings are the few that i can remember...
If my bf tell me like this, i will slap him till death!!!!! (-_-b)
I find bf to take care of me mah, now wan me to take care of him back ar???!!!! (-_-!!!)
I think i may exaggerated a bit (just a bit nia!), but the question is guys not reli allowed to be a house-husband in an oriental society?
Some more i feel wronged as i was saying i will give queenie a chance to choose to be a career woman or a house-wife nia...
(T-T)
Pity lor...
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Interesting topic!
Back to old days, women were not educated. So they have to depend on the husband.
Now 21st century, women always like to argue about equal status between men and women bla bla bla...
Now both husband and wife able to earn, if one of them choose to stay at home and do the daily chores, jaga anak, cook, i dun see there's anything wrong with it, as long as each of them really take care their part seriously and adequately.
BUT
Generally, women are more caring and in terms of organising, i think they are better. (Although i'm not that organize sometimes.. And i hate doing housework! :P)
And men is more good in handling emotion.. That's what i think la.. Hehe..
But no need to scold me mar...
Pity...
haha..funny Sam..!!
Generally,If the house-husband stay at home to sacrifice,like really no choice but have to stay home..i.e ;take care of childrens..or parents..I think its ok..bt i will prefer my partner (if any) work..eventho just part time..coz stay at home..no social life..no activity..will cause ppl to be sentimental..eew..i dwn to come back home and my husband told me the latest gossip abt neighbours..Or cry out loud abt I'm not paying attentn to him..huahaha..
besides,if ur partner working..u can use the extra cash..after all money no enough..! hehe..
so my conclusion,i don't knw..it'll depends but preferable to work..hehe..
Haha..
Thx, Cristin...
U n YJ gave me a whole perspective that i din reli think of..
Haha...
Thx for concerning..
Thats very common in foreign country
however, asian still conservative in their thinking.Actually that ok if both husband and wife agree with it
no offence for having a partner as a house husband but i would perfer my partner to work cuz i would rather to take care of family cores rather than him. if he can be a house husband which is up to my expectation then no harm to go ahead but if can't then it's better for him to earn than mess up the whole house... haha
Haha.. god... Imagine the wife just came back from work. And the moment she open the door, and found her husband and baby messing up the whole house. Diapers, food, toys, dirty clothes everywhere... Fainted!
HAHAHAHA i welcome a house husband anytime :D
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