Men cannot be house-husband ar?

Hey girls, i need your contributions...

Today i had lunch with my colleagues. Female colleagues talked about maybe will sacrifice career for family. Then i said that i can be a house-husband. Then suddenly all the guns are pointed to me! They started to scold me...

The followings are the few that i can remember...
If my bf tell me like this, i will slap him till death!!!!! (-_-b)
I find bf to take care of me mah, now wan me to take care of him back ar???!!!! (-_-!!!)

I think i may exaggerated a bit (just a bit nia!), but the question is guys not reli allowed to be a house-husband in an oriental society?

Some more i feel wronged as i was saying i will give queenie a chance to choose to be a career woman or a house-wife nia...
(T-T)
Pity lor...

I am too immature...

This is a post corresponding to the previous post named "are we too young to handle the life that i am having?" as i think i found a conclusion on my own situation to the question.

Unfortunately, the answer is yes.

Lately, there is just too many problem, too short of time for me. Of course, my life is even more miserable with all the restrictions that i have at the current stage of my life. Haiz...

Work...
Study...
Family...
Dance...

I have to juggle everything. Maybe i am not so prepared for all this, but i will never be really prepared if i don't do it. Haha...

What don't kills us, makes us stronger...
I wanted to be man that can handle everything thrown to him. That is why i may be sad. I may be puzzled. I may be angry. I may be mad. But i will never back-off...
If not, i will never be the man that i wanna be...

Luckily, those friends that have to face similar, if not identical problems as i am are doing pretty well. It makes me more confident that i will get through these and learn from these...

God helps those help themselves!
May god bless me with the strength that will help me to go through this toil and troubles, on my journey to become a complete man, who will shine care and comfort to those around him, contributing to the community...

What is the right life?

Today, i talked a long-time best friend (a guy), about how our life is different from the majority of age.

The major difference we can tell is that majority of my friends going to far far places for vacation + go out for activities (lately paint ball very popular) + clubbing + karaoke + etc...

While they were doing that, my fren n i are typically reading novel / sleeping...
swt...

From there, we extended our discussion on how this may impact our life.

My fren is a single bachelor. We are saying this will affect his market big time. As nowadays the pace of the society is getting faster n faster. We are in a microwave era, where everything has to be faster n faster. This is easy to understand from here why the majority is trying to experience whatever they can in the shortest of time possible. Therefore, we this kind of couch potato is very unfavourable in the market. There might not even have a reliable market! Hahaha...

Well, for me, we conclude that i am a bad bf + Queenie is VERY unfortunate. Haiz...
I am not bringing her good time as i should. I know she like to get to a lot of places + like surprises. I didn't really accomplish that. Haiz...
This is something tat i will look into though...

The biggest problem we have in the discussion is that we don't really know should me flow the crowd or stand the point that we are now. We really enjoyed what we do (being couch potato) when we do it. We don't really enjoy the travelling that much. However, we really worry that our enjoyment is at ( shd i use "in" instead of "at" here?) the expense of other people.

So...
We are puzzled + lost + wondering...

The best thing tat could happen now is tat someone give me a list of measurement of life achievement as in "The Sims". Haha...